Bloggy, I know this is the most stereotypical complaint, but what ever happened to the nice guys? Where are they hiding? Every year there seem to just be more jerks who are just trying to get some action and are totally insensitive. Why is it so difficult to find the right kind of guy? I'm talking about the ones that still hold the door open, who will be a shoulder to cry on and are happy to just be there for us when we need them? There's got to be at least one truly nice guy left. -Stacy

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Alright, Bloggy. This is going to sound weird and maybe I shouldn't be complaining. And I promise this is not a bragging thing. Ok, so I just moved in with my girlfriend. About two weeks ago we both woke up in the middle of the night already having sex. Like, I was asleep, she was asleep, then bam, like sleep walking. We thought it was a weird, one time thing and we laughed about it. A couple days ago, it happened again. We're starting to get worried because she's not on the pill and we're definitely too young to have a kid. What the F is going on? -Fred

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Man oh man, I wish I had your problems, kid. All joking aside, there are a few things we have to address.

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Bloggy, I'm a 23 year old guy living in podunk middle of nowhere. I grew up here and I hate it, so I'm thinking of packing a bag and getting out of here for a better place to live. The problem is, I don't have much money. With the economy how it is today, I'm not sure it would be a good idea to try to start over some place else. Should I just bite the bullet and go, or should I lay low and wait for things to get better? Lou

You're right, Lou. Moving is expensive.

Depending on how far you go and the method of travel you take to get there, transit alone can put you back a nice chunk of change. Heck, getting a place to live usually involves screening fees, first and last months rent, and setting up new utilities accounts. If you're on your way to a big city, expect the price tag on all those things to be pretty steep.

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Behind the scenes at an advice column, you'd be surprised how many medical questions come through. Some of them are mundane, like whether or not to use chocolate syrup as a sexual lubricant (you shouldn't) and some of them are a lot more serious. While we here at Ask Bloggy are dedicated to providing our readers with good, anonymous support, none of us are trained physicians and we don't exactly have one on retainer. So, for the most part, we won't be answering serious medical questions. Those questions we answer that have some kind of medical component to them will all get similar responses: Consult a doctor. A real one. If you're not sure about the advice the first one gives you, get a second opinion from another real doctor.

My girlfriend has been acting really weird for the past couple weeks. She used to be really active and she never flaked out about her job or school. I recently found out that she's been staying home from class a lot. Whenever I ask about that, or other stuff, she just tells me that she's tired.

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Crack open a bottle of champagne. It's Ask Bloggy's first romance question.

Hey Bloggy or whoever you are. I've got a question for you about this thing with my boyfriend. So, we've been together for about three months now and things were going really well. He's nice, he's cute, he isn't a deadbeat. We started "being intimate" about a month and a half into the relationship. Last week, he confesses to me that he's bisexual. I said I didn't know how I felt about that. And I still don't. I've never been with a bisexual guy before. I mean, does this mean that he wants to be with guys too? Is he just gay and afraid to say so? He's a really nice guy, but this whole thing just makes me nervous.

Help,

Cali

First of all, take a deep breath, Cali. Everything is going to be all right.

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It's an inaugural kind of week, isn't it? It's the first edition of Ask Bloggy, the online advice column for all your personal quandaries. Oh, and I heard we're swearing in a new president this week. So, let's get to it.

I am in a predicament. I'm 18 and about 6 months away from graduation. My problem is that i have no idea what i wanna do with my life as far as my career goes. I mean i have ideas what i wanna do but it seems to change every month. I have wanted to be everything from a brain surgeon one week to a construction manager the next. Lately i have really been looking into doing either the border patrol or the coast guard. I have a big desire to serve my country. I love the outdoors and action and i don't want an office job. That's why i figured these jobs would be great. I love America more than anything and want to keep it safe. Whenever I see the recruitment commercials for the border patrol or coast guard i get goosebumps. That's how i sorta know i really wanna do this. Anyways, i would just like some feedback of what i should do.

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